Showing posts with label Gloria Faye Brown Bates\/aka Granny Gee. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gloria Faye Brown Bates\/aka Granny Gee. Show all posts

Sunday, August 3, 2014

She Always Went Toward The Light...

She Always Went Toward The Light ...
By Gloria Faye Brown Bates/aka Granny Gee


Photo is owned, is of me.  Gloria Faye Brown Bates/aka Granny  ... in this photo, I had gotten hold of scissors, cut off my long hair ... I 'may have gotten my doll's hair, too' ... maybe, even my baby brother.



The little girl stood beside her babysitter, at the window.  They were peeping out the blinds into the night.  The babysitter pointed across the street to a big bush under the nightlight.

There!   She told the little girl, and boy she was babysitting to look there!  There were two, big men hiding behind the bush ... they were watching the house.

The little girl felt fear ... she didn't understand what was happening ... but, she knew it was bad.  The babysitter was talking in a hushed voice ... it trembled.  Tears began rolling down her little cheeks.

The men rose up from behind the bushes, ran into the dark.  They couldn't be seen any longer.  The babysitter grabbed both children by the hand, ran to the front door.  They stood there ....

There was a horrible crash ... the basement door was being smashed open.  The babysitter unlocked the door, pulled the two children out into the dark.  They began to run up the street.  No one made a sound.

They turned the corner, ran down that street until the babysitter came to her yard.  They quickly ran up steps onto the porch.  She opened the front door, got the children inside, locked the door behind them.

The little girl stood there in the brightly lit room.  She had never felt so safe.

The two men were never caught.  For the remainder of the time, the little girl lived in the house ... she never went into the basement again.  When she tried to enter the door ... all she could see was scary darkness.  She grew up afraid of the dark ... she always went toward the light.

Photo/Story Credit belongs, is owned by Gloria Faye Brown Bates/ aka &grannygee

Pain Isn't Always From Getting ... Old

Pain Isn't Always From Getting ... Old
By Gloria Faye Brown Bates/aka Granny Gee



Photo of me as a younger woman ... I was strong, invincible ... and was going to 'save the world'....
Gloria Faye Brown Bates/aka Granny Gee


Be careful of how you treat your body when young.  You are healthy, strong ... you can carry the whole world on your shoulders.  You are invincible.

When there's work to be done, something heavy to be moved, nobody else can do it ... you are the one to do it.  You treat your body like a workhorse.  You can do anything.

As you become older, you notice you feel a little stiffness in your body when you go to get up from a seated position.  In fact, getting out of bed might hurt ... at least a little.

You get a little more older ... you find out your joints hurt like hell.  Your knees are shot ... you have to get injections in them in order to walk ... make the pain go away.

You begin to get surgeries due to life-saving illnesses, or whatever reason.  Oh my, you really do hurt when you go to stand up, walk.  You body is full of ... pain.  It hurts, your whole body really hurts.

No, it's not because you are ... old.  It's from the wear and tear on your body.  You might not have taken care of your body through time.  You wish to have a second chance ... you'd know what not to do ... now.

You have to stop, see the humor in it.  I know that sounds strange, but ... think about it.  Think about all the surgeries you've had ... you are almost embarrassed to tell a doctor 'all' the things your body has been through.  You have scars to show it.

I smile thinking about all my body's been through.  It's not funny ... but, it's amazing when I think about it.  I smile thinking how happy I am to be here ... no matter the pain.  In my situation ... I have a love-hate relationship with pain.  To live ... I have to have pain ... I love to live.

Pain isn't always from getting ... old.  It's from all your body, mind has been through ... through time.  No, pain isn't always from getting ... old.

Photo/Story Credit:  Photo, story owned by Gloria Faye Brown Bates/ aka &grannygee  

Thursday, July 31, 2014

That's The Beauty Of Becoming ... Older

That's The Beauty Of Becoming ... Older
By Gloria Faye Brown Bates/aka Granny Gee




Do you have to constantly get something from another ... for you to give your friendship to?


Do they have to 'buy' you?  I remember being younger, and the 'friends' I had ... weren't real friends.  I had to keep giving ... this was before I learned I 'could say no'.  


One memory comes to mind, was when someone I really liked, came to visit me.  I was probably eighteen... she was a little older.  She came into my living room all smiles, confidence.


She looked me sitting on the couch in my pretty nightgown, my book close by.  She said, "I want your nightgown!"  She saw my book, said she'd like to have it, too!

I gave her both... I didn't want to.  I didn't know how to get out of it... gracefully.  I would have been very embarrassed to have explained 'why' I wanted to keep my nightgown, my book.


It took years to learn to 'say no'.  I look back to 'before'... when I should have.  It would have saved me so much grief.


You know how being young... you think you have to do everything someone else tells you ... or someone's going to get mad at you.  Back then... I couldn't bear for anyone not to like me, much less be mad at me. 
 

Today ... I am myself; I can tell you 'no'!  If you don't like it... or turn against me ... you just have to.  I can go my way... 'let go' of you.  I would never if possible say 'yes' to something I don't want to do, or agree to do.  I would wish you all the best.


That's the beauty of becoming a little older...  

Photo Credit/ Story are owned by me (of me), #Gloria Faye Brown Bates/ aka #grannygee