Colors In My Life...
The Colors In My Life.... reflections
Colors As I Go
Tuesday, March 19, 2024
Disgusting? So Be It!
Photos owned by Gloria Faye Brown Bates... our Miss Camie Leigh Bates asleep on our bed ❤❤❤
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So, this morning I was reading online some person's view on letting dogs sleep on the bed ... sleeping with dogs. 🐕
They were saying how disgusting it was to let dogs sleep on the bed. I didn't take offense at that as I respect other people's way of thinking ... even if my views are completely the opposite.
I look into my own mind to see where they could be coming from. Truthfully, I can understand a lot of times the ... 'whys?' ... people think as they do when different from my way of thinking. I don't knock it. We are all in different places in our lives.
I didn't get to grow up with dogs, never got to know dogs were so special. I didn't know that once I looked into a dog's eyes, face I would see such feeling there. I wasn't ever close enough. Once one ever makes that connection ... there's no turning back.
Once you see, feel a dog's love ... it's forever. They love you when you are ugly, they love you when you are at your worst ... they love you unconditionally.
At that time I wouldn't have a dog in the house ... now? I wouldn't ever have a dog I had to keep outside ... or keep on a chain, tied up. I won't even begin writing my feelings on that.
We have had in the past a family of Bassett Hounds ... mother, father, son ... sleep on our bed ... we had had Rottweilers, Doberman, once a Pit Bull ... Coy Dog, and it hurts me to keep writing about them ... why? Because all through time they got old, died ... because I loved each, every one of them with my very Heart.
So, we've always had dogs, big dogs sleeping on our bed. I know how to not take up much space in the bed ... I learned to make sure our dogs were comfortable on the bed! 🙂🙃🙂😁😄😃😀
If one got up to go outside I would stay awake until they were safely back in bed. We've always had a chain link fence, pet door. Of course, now ... the fence we have for our one remaining dog is an improvised fence ( it works, and I try to make it pretty).
I feel when one takes on the responsibility of pets they shouldn't tie them up to suffer in the weather ... be 'already captured' on a chain for some big animal to happen by to make a meal out of your dog ... they can't run, hide. They have to stand there to be eaten , killed, mauled.
The list goes on ... 'why? I am against chaining an animal. Food, water ... they have to wait for some lazy-ass to decide whether they want to get out of bed to bring them food, water. Anyway, I won't get started on how I feel about this. It's obvious what my feelings are by now without anymore explanation.
I don't apologize for telling it like it really is when it comes to dogs. I have seen heartbreaking things in my time all the way to some dumb ass going out into his dogs' fence to stand, crack a whip ... dressed in his safari garb. You do know there are people not mentally fit to have animals ... nor children?
I made sure that man's dogs had dog houses to get inside from the weather. He thought because they were so big, had the reputation of being mean ... the dogs didn't suffer from the cold, heat. I could keep on ... but, I won't.
What I began writing about ... the person's point of view on dogs sleeping on the bed ... and how disgusting it is for them to do so.
It's easy to knock something until one tries it. I can say many years ago when I never had the slightest clue about dogs, pets ... never around them ... back then I would have said the same not knowing.
I can only tell that person to be sure she doesn't look into a dog's face ... eyes because if she ever does that ... she will be hooked on having precious dogs in her life. There's no turning back once knowing, feeling that kind of love. If you aren't anybody to anyone else ... to a dog you are his everything. You don't have to put on airs to make him love you.
Back to the word ... disgusting. I will have to be disgusting when it comes to my dogs ... dog. As long as I have a dog I will sleep with them. I'm known to throw blankets, pillows on the floor whenever my dogs became old, ill, too heavy for me to put them on our bed. I slept beside them to the end.
Our bed stays clean, our Camie sleeps on top of the covers with her freshly laundered covers, teddy bear. I keep a quilt or sheet over her sleeping area to throw in the washer at anytime. I couldn't, Skip couldn't sleep without Camie being on the bed. She is a part of us, our very lives.
I think if that person discovered the love of a dog she would change her mind. That's not my story to write. Her words, however, did affect what I feel. I can write truthfully about that because I know firsthand how it feels to love a dog, how it feels for a dog to love me.
Disgusting isn't a nice word at all ... I know I'm not disgusting ... because I sleep with my dog and that's disgusting to some ... so be it!
I have to say this, I wasn't going to say it ... there are human beings I've known, seen through my years of life that ... never-ever would I sleep on their bed nor ... allow on mine. Because ... that would be disgusting to me.
Our dog is clean as possible ... she doesn't want to be dirty. There are some human beings who ... like to mire in their own filth. I won't knock them for it because it could be their religion or a beauty routine, whatever is in their minds. I have to respect, turn .. go my way as fast as I can go. I don't want to be around it ... I'll take my dog anyday.
Disgusting... so be it!
Monday, March 18, 2024
Imperfect Can Be Beautiful, Too!
For the past 2 years when Skip Bates Skip was so ill ... I couldn't go outside to do anything.
Grass grew everywhere . My photos reflect this year ... I have literally sat on the ground, pulled up wagons of grass. Now! 🙂🙃😊🩷🩷
Now ... Skip is looking forward to going outside for cookouts, drink his coffee ... I will even cook him pancakes, breakfast outside.
Skip kept walking to the door with his walker to watch my progress (make sure I was okay 🩷🙃🩷) all 3 days I worked in the yard.
He is looking forward to watering plants ... flower and vegetables ... I will plant inside the fence.
My fence is an improvised fence, it isn't perfect at all ... the good thing is it protects Camie when she goes in, out of her pet door. It does what I want ... just like the picnic table! Only ... the work I did on the picnic table can't be seen.
I want to make this little space so happy for Skip to enjoy. It means so much to him now, that he is himself. Before ... he was in another world struggling to live. I will make it beautiful for Skip with plants.
Sharing some of what I am creating ... real life ... real person ... doing the best I know how.
I will make it beautiful... in my mind I can see ... in real life I am improvising to make it reality.
Will it be perfect? NO. Imperfect can be beautiful, too 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🙃😊🙂🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
My Hearts Reflect Love, Caring, Respect In A Good Way
Sunday, March 17, 2024
It's a Good Thing It Isn't Visible Because It Isn't Pretty!
Photo owned by Gloria Faye Brown Bates ... I became a picnic table fixer-upper today I did it ... it's solid as a rock! Read on ...
Well ... I fixed the picnic table! It was hard to manage that heavy-ass table but, sheer will-power got it done. It is solid now.
Now ... the way I fixed it with screws, nails isn't visible. That's a good thing because ... it isn't pretty!
Today ... I Will Become A Picnic Table Fixer!
Saturday, March 16, 2024
Silence Is Golden ... Fabric Shower curtain
Silence Is Golden ... Fabric Shower Curtain
8:57 am ... March 16, 2024 ... Saturday
I have never thought about why silence is associated with the color of gold until this very moment.
I was wondering for a moment ... why? Then, it came to me ... silence is special at times ... valued, treasured ... like gold. My Gloria opinion ... I could be right, I could be wrong.
I was just thinking about what color is chaos, terrible noise? How would I paint the color if I had to. The colors orange, black, yellow streaks came to my mind ... all going in crazy ways. Not my colors for sure. Too loud, not pretty at all.
Do you ever think about colors to your life besides wearing them? I am thinking most of the time about what color something is depending on mood, how one goes about doing it. Oh my, do I sound crazy? I promise you I'm not crazy ... I just like to think about things in different ways ... good ways. Maybe just to entertain myself 🙂🙃🙂💚💜💚
Colors speak to me at times ... like in the way I once bought a shower curtain. I only had a white plastic shower curtain for several years in the shower ... why? I truly couldn't decide what color, design to get in a fabric curtain. Boring, I know but, at least the white wasn't driving me crazy.
Well ... one day I walked by fabric shower curtains not paying them any mind ... when I stopped, backed up to take a closer look at one shower curtain that caught, held my attention.
The shower curtain wasn't loud with bold colors ... it was the softest of green, olive green, a little darker green ... rose pink all on white fabric. The design made me think of leaves falling in a sense ... the whole curtain made me feel calm, happy inside. At the same time it felt ... elegant. I fell in love with the curtain, designs.
I thought I would really like to have it but, knew by the feel of the material, design ... the curtain would be very expensive. It also, had the fancy bronze double hooks that allow one to hang both plastic liner and ... the fabric curtain!
I knew I couldn't afford to pay that much for it so, I began walking away. I really was wishing to have that shower curtain ...the soft colors, design appealed to me like none I'd seen in so long. Silly ME ... felt sad to have to leave it behind.
I don't know 'why ... something made me turn back, look at the price tag on the fabric shower curtain.
I didn't have my reading glasses with me so, I knew the price I was seeing wasn't right. $7.99 ... I thought it was probably $17.99 at the least. I looked even closer ... it still looked like $7.99 but, I knew it couldn't be. I walked off again, quickly turned back, picked the package up ... hugged it! Suppose it really was $7.99!
I knew at the counter I didn't have to purchase it if it was way more. Even $17.99 at that time was too much for me.
When the cashier rang it up I was prepared to tell her I wasn't buying it ... it was on the tip of my tongue. Tip of my tongue ... now, that's something to think about! Not now ... I have the price of the shower curtain on my mind.
The register rang up ... $7.99!!! My 👄 mouth fell into a happy, happy smile! I went home with that beautiful shower curtain. Every time I look at it .. I feel such a quiet happiness inside.
Colors ... colors do play a lot of importance in one's life, especially mine. Colors can lift one's spirits. I need colors to survive. Colors are important as the air I breathe. I bet you are the same way. I am happy with my shower curtain 💚💜💚
Friday, March 15, 2024
Pure Love
March 15, 2024 ... Friday PM
This morning I didn't take time to write as both Skip, Camie were awake.
I took a photo of Skip's hand when he reached out his hand, placed it on Camie. Pure love.
Today I began pulling weeds, grass to get our little yard in shape. Skip has been wanting to sit outside ... so, today he watched me while I worked.
I haven't finished yet ... when I get it like we want it, I will take more photos to share. I want to weed the Peppermint plants, Hosta plants ... they come back each year.
Well ... I am very tired. When Skip said he wanted to come to bed early ... I was ready to go to the bedroom. I made sure all was neat first.
Good evening 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
Thursday, March 14, 2024
Green Begins This Day With A Margaritaville Shirt 🙂🙃🙂💛💛